Thanksgiving brings families together around the table to share memories, laughs, and plenty of food. It is also one of the few times each year when everyone is in the same room and in the same mindset. Between the pumpkin pie and the parade on TV, you may have a rare chance to talk about something that matters far more than the holiday menu. Your parents’ long term plans. 
These conversations can feel uncomfortable at first, but they are incredibly important. Knowing what your parents want, how their assets are protected, and who they trust to handle their affairs can save your family from confusion and conflict later on. Here are five meaningful questions to gently bring up during the holiday weekend.
Do you have an updated estate plan?
Many people create a will or trust decades ago and never revisit it. Life changes, finances change, families grow, and laws shift. An outdated plan can create problems that no one expects. Asking whether their documents are current is a simple way to start the conversation. If they say it has been a while, remind them that an estate plan should evolve along with their life.
Who is named to make decisions for you if you cannot?
Powers of attorney and healthcare directives are just as important as wills. These documents determine who can step in if your parents ever become unable to make financial or medical decisions. Having clarity now prevents panic and confusion later. This is a chance to make sure the right people are in the right roles and that everyone understands the responsibilities involved.
Is your financial information organized and easy to access?
Most families struggle after a loved one passes simply because they cannot find account information. Asking your parents how their financial records are organized helps ensure that important assets do not get overlooked. This includes bank accounts, insurance policies, investment information, and digital accounts. A little organization now can go a long way when it matters most.
Have you taken steps to protect your home and savings?
As parents age, protection becomes more important. Long term care costs, creditors, and unexpected events can put assets at risk. Asking whether they have considered trusts or asset protection strategies can open the door to a helpful and supportive conversation. You are not asking about how much they have. You are asking whether their hard earned assets are safe.
Do you feel confident that your wishes will be honored?
This question often brings out the most meaningful conversation. It gives your parents the chance to share concerns, hopes, and gaps they may not have voiced before. Confidence comes from having a plan that is clear and legally sound. If they say they are unsure, this is your opportunity to encourage them to speak with an estate planning professional.
Thanksgiving Conversations That Truly Matters
Talking about estate planning at Thanksgiving is not about being morbid. It is about making sure your parents are protected and that your family has clarity and peace of mind. A simple conversation today can prevent stress and confusion in the years ahead. If your parents need to update their estate plan or create one for the first time, WFP Law is here to help. Visit wfplaw.com/contact-us to schedule a consultation and make sure their wishes are honored and their legacy is protected.
